10 first dating mistakes you should avoid immediately
You enter the restaurant and search with nervousness to find the person you want to meet, and then excitedly join with a coffee and talk hopefully seeing each other for an hour, and you come back and check your phone repeatedly, but day after day, there is no call not even single text from her. You become disappointed and wonder but slowly realize that your first date went horribly wrong. It’s not difficult to understand when dating goes wrong and most of the time you unintentionally destroy the future chances. Here are ten mistakes you may do on the first date.
- Interviewing the person
No one likes to be treated as a candidate as if she comes for an interview. Talk about yourself after few questions, and make sure that it’s not like a job interview introduction. You come for a date and should ask few interesting questions, but don’t go too far.
- Looking at other girls
One of the biggest sin most of the guys are doing is not paying proper attention to the girl they are going to meet and if you are one of them who is looking at other girls while talking with the dating partner then forget about any second chance; at least in this life.
- Become serious
Remember, the first date is a meeting with the person you barely know and becoming serious may label you as a desperate guy who has a minimal chance from girls, and they don’t like a person who is not popular among them. We are not saying that one must be popular among them and it is not necessary but don’t show this on a first date even if you like her because usually, women take more time to fall in love with men. The way you feel after the first meet could take several dates for her. Don’t talk about negativity, insecurity or problems in your life; make the first date fun and positive and for God sake don’t bring any gift.
- Avoid too much compliments
Yeah, we know girls like compliments, but this is not a right place to give it. You compliment her already by asking for an outing so, no needs to say more. Don’t make any uncomfortable remarks like her physical appearances though you may like but, at first, this is a big no.
- Don’t use phone
Phones are necessary and in fact more useful than partners but can it full fill your wish like a partner? Then why use it frequently while on a date unless there is a medical emergency, for God sake avoid the use of the phone. Put it on silent mode till you say good night or good morning and trust us, how much good you are at everything, if the attention is much towards the phone, then forget about a second chance.
- Don’t bring controversial topics
via GIPHYYou are supposed to spend some quality time on the first date, and this can be possible if the environment is full of fun and love but in case you are an avid follower of politics, don’t start any discussion regarding this and best not to even use the word politics itself (just saying). Usually, ladies don’t like to talk about politics especially in these types of situations.
- Don’t make crude jokes
Everyone loves jokes and ladies are not alien either. That doesn’t mean you can crack it at the wrong time. Yeah, because you don’t know her taste, so maybe a wrong joke can destroy everything with a free slap on your face. Your first date is to know each other, feelings, her likes & dislikes and the common interests you both have. The best way is to start with small jokes and if the reactions are suspicious, stop it immediately.
People often forget how to behave like a guy on their first date which is a terrible mistake. For example, welcoming her with foods in hands or chewing something. Show the manner that she wants to let you introduce to her parents. We are not saying that you have to behave like a professional but like we expect something good from someone means we have to show the same. You should be well dressed, well smelled and take care of basic hygiene.
- Money doesn’t talk
You may be a multi-millionaire or penniless that should be limited to yourself. In general, not only girls but also guys don’t like to talk about money in their date. If you are rich, you are rich. People will know it automatically. By explaining your wealth means either you are faking or too arrogant. In case you have no money, it will make a pathetic situation. Maybe you will get sympathy, but not the girl.
- Don’t correct her
No one knows everything including you. If correcting others is your habits then throw it immediately, because neither guys nor girls like it. In fact, it will make more damage, if the person is a female. Rectifying herself will make her feel bad and chances of the second date are too low; in fact zero. You are here to win her heart not make her sad. Do something that will put a smile on her face, not by correcting her general knowledge even if she is dumb.
Your first dating is your first impression. Don’t destroy it by bringing silly topics, asking uncomfortable questions or cracking useless jokes. Always be yourself. Remember, the invitation for the second date depends on your attitude.