Breakup helps you to become a better version of yourself
Hold your breath singles! Before jumping the gun you are happy being single. Well, it depends on your choice and sometimes destiny, though we don’t know for the reason of your loneliness still, you won’t get that much of motivation like a person who just broke up. Being single is hard, admit or not even at least for once in a life you feel it still, you are happy but imagine the pain of breaking all the tie with a person you love most. It is hard to move on but possible. Remember, every incident has some pros & cons, and breakup is not different either. Here is how a breakup helps you to become a better version of yourself.
You feel devastated
At the first stage, crying is the only option left for you, and it’s impossible to imagine the life without the loved one. You spend the countless sleepless night by thinking of what’s wrong with you and wish you have the superpower to resolve the issue before it goes out of control. You lose all the hopes in life. Relax, it happens. It’s a temporary situation.
The most hated person on the earth
You don’t want to hear the name and feel anger for taking you for granted, and at the same time you become outraged for forgetting to say those things which you could say it before the breakup, and maybe that could save the relationship or could stop your ex to accuse you due to the misunderstandings. To avoid it though it’s difficult, erase everything that is related to that person; contact number to gifts, photos, and everything. The less you see and remember, the more you feel better. It may be a long process but will slowly help to recover.
You become calm
By throwing out the anger let you feel the unusual sense of calm, and you never feel it before in the life. At this stage, you understand your value and don’t care, and realize that life is better without your ex and wish it happened before.
You feel comfort
When you become calm, you have more control over your emotion than before which will ultimately give the power to think ahead of a relationship, and is the perfect time to decide the future goal of your life.
Whether you admit it or not but the bitter truth is a relationship kills your focus and concentration no matter how good it is, and for most of the people, it is like a painkiller though we are not saying that you should start breaking up, however, a person can become more focused and risk taker when he is not in a relationship. When you cross the previous stages of the breakup, it is easy for you to concentrate on your career, future goal, and unfulfilled wishes and most importantly you can save more money and have the time for your parents, siblings, and friends who care for you.
A better version
It is better to stay single than in a relationship where you have to sacrifice the self-respect, forced to cut the relation with other people who give value to you and most importantly if it kills your inner peace; it is not a relationship because it stops you to grow as a better version of yourself. As you are now single; it means you have time for yourself and you can do with it whatever you want. It’s a time to improve yourself to become a better version of yourself. You can learn new skills or take a job though it’s a part of career whereas you can more than this like going to the gym, or on a vacation or the hobby, you want to pursue in your life like singing, writing, painting or anything that you like most apart from your job.
Confidence and Happiness
Being single means, you are a free soul and can live the life as you wish, and you don’t need to take unnecessary relationship headache that ultimately makes you happy. You have more time to take care of your health by working out, and you don’t need to depend on anyone for emotional support which means you are independent and it will boost your confidence for sure.
Relationships are not everything and breakup is not the end of the world. Life is moving, and if nothing is permanent; how you think an unfulfilling relationship will last forever? Maybe that sweet memory will let you feel happy, but life is not about staying with the past, and you have to move on.